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DAYTON - Dayton High School is brimming with cultural diversity this year as it plays host to six foreign exchange students, representing France, Germany, Brazil, Japan, and Thailand. The Times spoke with Takayuki Inoue of Japan and Nora Mansur of Germany regarding their experience in the U.S.
Takayuki (Yuki), a sophomore at Dayton High, is hosted by the Kerekulas, a family who resides in the country with their four homeschooled children. Rural life and a large family provide stark contrast to city life in Mito, just north of Tokyo, where Yuki lives with his parents and younger brother. Add a homeschooling family to the mix, practically unheard of in Japan, and Yuki knew he was in for an adventure. He admits that doing daily chores was difficult at first but now says, "It's good for me and I like the responsibility of being part of a family."
Yuki came to the U.S. to improve his English, play basketball and gain independence. Basketball was, "So fun. A really good time!" said Yuki, though Dayton's short season challenged him to learn the language and plays more quickly than the year-long intramural club he plays in at home.
U.S. holidays were another surprise. "At home, Christmas is a small celebration and we don't have Thanksgiving," said Yuki who was impressed with Christmas gifts and the food-laden table at the "Thanksgiving party". Conversely, New Year was nothing like in Japan. "I spent the most quiet New Year ever," he said, laughing.
Yuki enjoys learning to shoot with a 4-H club, though he still finds it "impossible to think people can have guns here." He was also surprised at the importance of religion in our culture, as opposed to his own.
Yuki enjoys school at Dayton, though he feels it was easier to concentrate and get more accomplished back home where students don't change class every hour. He noted that U.S. schools utilize computers and technology more than in Japan, where blackboards are the norm. Homecoming was another highlight, as they don't have "dance parties" at his school in Japan. "I like it! It's so fun!" he said with a smile.
Nora Mansur, of Hamburg, Germany is enrolled as a junior here, but will re-take her sophomore year upon her return home. Nora, whose Arabic father and French mother regularly travel with her to Turkey and France, welcomes cultural diversity.
She was drawn to the U.S. culture by shows like "High School Musical" and "Zoey 101". Nora's English, interspersed with slang and the typical teen "like", is spot on, with only a slight accent to give her away.
Unfortunately, Nora experienced some difficulty integrating with her original host family and had a rough go the first several months, experiencing severe bouts of homesickness. She moved in with the Lester and Jana Eaton and son Alex in January and is coping much better.
Through her difficulties, she learned to let go of expectations, embrace a new culture and rely on her own strength. Her mother, who she converses with via Skype, has commented on positive changes in her character. "She says she sees so much change in me, for the good," says Nora.
In keeping with her desire to live the typical American life, Nora took the opportunity to be a Dayton Bulldogs cheerleader. "I really liked it," she said. "I wish I could do it back home, but sports are just not big in our culture like they are here. We don't have school sports."
The Hamburg school day is significantly shorter than Dayton's, but Nora has more homework and feels the academics are more strenuous in Germany. Upon graduation, Nora expects to attend university to become a pharmacist like her father, and anticipates helping him in the family business, where her mother is secretary.
While Yuki and Nora shared both negative and positive experiences, both feel their personal growth has been the major gain. "It was a good experience," said Yuki. "Not only because I was happy and learned a lot, but also because of the sad, scary parts and that I could handle it all by myself, without my parents or school. I gained a lot of maturity." Nora shares the sentiment, stating, "I wish I could re-do the first part of the year. I've learned to be more open to people and am stronger and more independent now."
Yuki's host mom and veteran exchange host, Dawna Kerekula, summed up her experience with foreign exchange students saying, "The exchange program is fascinating in that every experience is richly unique. Each student will experience something completely different than the next."
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